10 Tips For The Average Rider (Video)

Are you an average rider? You know the type - the one who has to work hard for one step forward and two steps back.

Enjoy the following tips to get through those average rider moments that we all experience from time to time.

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What’s Your Stickability Factor?

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When your horse decides to express himself, do you ride it out? Or do you panic?

Of course, we'd all like to say that we can just float along while the horse shakes, rattles and rolls (the equine version) but it does stand true that stickability is probably one of the strongest determining factors of how well you can work with your horse rather than against him. Without being able to ride through a bobble, you will almost likely always be at the very least, left behind, and at the worst, left without (a horse)!

Where do you fit on this scale? The higher the number, the farther you can go in helping your horse through difficult situations.

0 - No stickability at all

If we aren't at this level now, we definitely were at the beginning of our riding careers. So all of us should know what it feels like to not be able to stick around. It's not a good feeling. The smallest hiccup, and we get to kiss dirt. Not only does it hurt, but it's also very humiliating. Aside from that, it teaches a young horse to lose confidence in the rider, and it plain scares the older, more educated horse - imagine that the horse is doing what he knows he's supposed to do, and before he knows it, off pops the rider!

All kidding aside, hopefully, you will go through this stickability level quickly. If you find you are falling off at any unexpected moment, you probably need to be working on your seat. 

1 - Sticks to the horse - sometimes

You will eventually get to a point where you can follow the small misstep/deek/stop/start. This is when your confidence begins to build. Now, if your horse does something unexpected, you can move almost fast enough to right yourself if you lean too far. You can sit through a small buck if the horse happens to go straight and bucks only once. You can grab onto a fistful of mane and drag your body back into the saddle. How many of us have gone through this?

2 - Sticks more often than not

At Level 2, you are beginning to be able to take on more of a challenge. You can now sit through several bucks as long as they aren't too big, wild or sideways. You can keep a more upright body while the horse spooks. Hard starts and stops don't phase you as much. You still have that sinking feeling once in a while, if your horse slips out quickly from underneath you. You fall less often than you used to, and you're generally more sure that you can have a chance to correct the horse once the romp is over.

3 - Stickable

Ah! You have "arrived" once you reach Level 3. At this point, you are able to sit through many of your horse's inconsistencies. Although you still do fall off when something happens when you aren't expecting it, you can stay on most of the time and come through the episode with your senses intact. Not only can you stick, but you can ride well enough to recover your balance within several strides and carry on. The adrenaline you get from the almost-fall is lower in intensity and you have more control over it. If you are riding in a lesson, there is only a small disturbance of the rhythm of the ride and you can usually recover quickly enough to not lose everything you had been working on.

4- Sticks to train

The next level is to be able to stick well enough to ride out most of your horse's expressive maneuvers. This is when your riding can become more about the horse than you. Most Level 4 riders will be able to ride young horses at this stage, because they can handle most of the horse's missteps. This rider will allow a horse to make mistakes and still be there afterward.

If you get to this level, you will start to discover that you have a riding sense of humor. Things don't matter nearly as much as they used to. You will happily enjoy the horse that shows you his personality even if there is some up-and-down hops along the way. Although there are times when you might still be reactive rather than active, most of the ride is intentional and most of the time, you have enough control over your emotions that a bobble can be just that - a bobble.

5- Sticks - almost always

This is the epitome of stickability. Not only will you be able to ride out the young horse's initiatives, not only will you be able to correct the more educated horse's exuberance, but you will be so stickable that with the additional training you have had to get to this level, you will be able to actually improve the horse's way of going. You will be able to ride through problems as if they weren't problems at all. In fact, you will probably be able to stop problems from the get-go.

The only one disadvantage to being completely stickable is that although the probability of falls is drastically reduced, you still can't predict when the horse is going to fall. And if you stay on  well enough, there is a chance for you to fall with him if he is the one that does the falling.




What to do

There is always going to be a certain amount of danger when riding horses. You can never eliminate the possibility of falling. However, developing your stickability factor will help you go a long way toward improving both your and your horse's level of confidence.

How can you improve your stickability factor? Work on the seat. There is no other answer.

If you can improve your seat, you can improve your balance, your timing of the aids, your core muscles, your movement with or against the horse - pretty much everything. Lunge lessons are excellent, no matter which level you are at, to help you develop confidence and allow your body to learn to do what it needs to without worrying about where the horse is going.

Everything, including stickability, begins with the seat.

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"There are many reasons why we enjoy riding horses. Maybe one of the most appealing facets of riding is the sense of freedom: freedom from our own limitations, freedom from gravity, freedom to (literally) roam the Earth. Time stands still while we have the privilege of feeling movement from the back of our four-legged friend. Riding gives us the place to just be.
Of course, there are other purposes too. Some of us revel in the challenge of learning the skills required to becoming a good team member of this unlikely duo. Riding is like no other sport or recreational pursuit simply because of the equine partner that must not only carry us, but also do so effortlessly and gracefully. As we develop our specific skill sets, we also grow as human beings in character, emotional maturity and mental acuity.
But there is one other motivation that drives some of us to persevere in the never-ending learning process that is horseback riding: improving the horse. As your own skills develop, you begin to realize that not only can you meet your own needs through riding, but also that you can even become an instrument of benefit for the horse."
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Dark Room Doors and Dressage

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Picture a Dark Room

Lights out - and you are standing in the center. You cannot see a thing. Your outstretched arms indicate that there is space in front of you. Although you can walk around and grope into the space ahead of you, the darkness prevents you from knowing which way you turn.

During my most intense schooling period, learning to ride was just like being in the Dark Room. There I was, in a bubble of "darkness", which represented the new riding skill I was trying to find. All I could do was grope around, trying to discover the elusive "feel" that I somehow knew was there.

Luckily, as horseback riders, we have instructors guiding us, showing us, describing feel, and giving feedback. So in that Dark Room of Learning to Ride, I did have my instructor pointing me (sometimes literally!) in the right direction.

I remember the first time I found my first "feel".

It was like reaching ahead in the darkness, and discovering a door in front of me. The initial incident was like I'd opened the door and taken a peek inside. The lights were on! I could see!

And then I stepped back abruptly into the darkness. Finding that feel the second time was once again an elusive undertaking. Admittedly, this time, it was easier to find the door. Instead of turning around myself in unknowing circles, I had a better idea of which way to step, and soon enough, there was the door and then the room with the lights on.

And so this was my progress through the learning process of riding. As I learned which way to move, I was able to achieve a feel sooner and easier and one day, with efficiency.

There were more doors to discover!

Then came the second door/skill, the third, the fourth. I realized that there were so many doors - unlimited actually - that I could source out. Interestingly, listening to different instructors opened other doors. As the years progressed, opening the old doors became a simple task, while finding new doors was just as challenging as finding that first so long ago.

Then came the day that I discovered doors behind the doors! Yup, that's right. I'd discovered the layers of learning that resided beyond the initial stages of each skill.

Every movement you learn as a horseback rider has infinite levels of understanding and ability.

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As you become proficient at one skill, you realize that there is ever more to develop. The skills interweave and intermingle. Becoming better in one area suddenly translates into improvement in other areas. Unbeknownst to you, your sitting trot improved while you were working on hind end engagement!

And so it goes. You learn, you realize what you don't know, and you learn some more. The path is long and wide and ever developing.

And THIS is what makes horseback riding such a strong parallel to living itself!

Do you have a similar story about the learning process in riding?

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Don’t mistake the halt for a stop!

Don't do it! Don't mistake the halt for a stop.

 They are two entirely different maneuvers.

It LOOKS like a stop but it really isn't

Avoid using the terms 'halt' and 'stop' interchangeably. They are completely distinct. The stop is as it says - a complete stop. Done. Over with, been there. Finished. Use the stop at the end of your ride, just before you get off.

The halt is far removed from the stop. It is a movement, and as such, it is just as engaged, energy-bound, and balanced as any other movement the horse can do. Think of it as a canter - without the legs moving, or the progression through space. Picture a car stopped at the red light. The engine is on and the moment of departure is at hand. Your horse should be ready and prepared to proceed to any movement you ask directly out of the halt.

Develop a rhythm, and maintain the momentum.

The halt has a rhythm similar to the rest of the movements. It also has momentum. The horse's hind legs go underneath the body and are prepared and waiting to step into the next movement at a moment's notice.

Don't break the momentum - even when you go to halt.

If you 'stop' instead of halt, the momentum is lost and the horse loses balance, strength and precision. The body becomes flat. The legs feel like they are 'stuck in the mud'. It is virtually impossible to do anything other than stagger out of the stop. The horse seems surprised if you ask for something after the stop.

Because the secret is that the halt is still a movement.

In classical dressage, the halt is considered a movement. By definition, the halt is a "suspension of progress, especially a temporary one." It is a pause, but it is just that. Keep the horse round - similar to a nice trot - and just stop the forward progression through space.

It is NOT a stop-moving-your-feet-and-throw-it-all-away feeling.

It is more of a wait-wait-wait-and-now-GO! feeling.

You NEED your legs going into the stop!

The horse should round its back and reach further underneath the body with the hind legs - all of this happens before the halt. Use your legs to lift the back before the horse halts. Keep the horse straight and half-halt into the movement. Avoid using your hands to pull on the horse's mouth. Instead, halt from your seat. THEN, halt from the hind end. The front end remains balanced and light. The back is round, the contact is consistent. The legs will stop square if the approach into the halt is energetic, forward and balanced. 

Be ready to gracefully step out of the pause at a moment's notice - to walk, trot or canter. 

Don't do it! Don't mistake the halt for a stop!

P.S. One last thought

The "test" for the halt: the horse is round, reaching for the bit, and SQUARE with all four legs. Then you know you did it!



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School Your Horse

Get Your Horse Connected, by Lorraine Jennings

I've worked with horses all my life. I'm a groom and a writer of equestrian articles. I've written for Pony, Horse and Rider, Ireland's Horse and Pony and Equestrian Life. Now I'm writing a book - School Your Horse - there's more than one way.

Look to School Your Horse for accurate and in-depth information about all things riding from a dressage perspective. Lorraine tackles common issues that you might run across, and her insight would be beneficial to all disciplines of riding. In the featured post above, "Get Your Horse Connected," Lorraine goes through several essential building blocks that are required to keep your horse working correctly in order to be able to carry the rider in a comfortable manner.
But don't stop there!  The web site is loaded with so many useful posts that you can probably find many posts that will be directly beneficial to you and your horse! Additionally, Lorraine puts it all into no-nonsense, easy to follow language that takes the mystery out of the more complicated concepts of riding. Enjoy!
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Is Dressage Judging All That Bad?

Judging in the dressage world has become a matter of concern. From the online forums to the FEI judging seminars themselves, the contention that dressage judging is too subjective and promotes incorrect training techniques has become a rampant topic of debate. Judges are accused of favouring the so-called "dressage breeds" (a.k.a warmbloods) and then within those breeds, they apparently cannot differentiate between flashy versus correct movement.

If you have had the opportunity to scribe for a judge, or shadow a judge, or go to a judges' update or forum, you would be witness to the amount of effort that is being put into objectifying a rather subjective exercise: that of considering and rating a horse's movement against accepted international standards of reference.

Certainly, judging isn't for everyone. Other than the handful of world-renowned judges that make a good living from judging, most judges are dedicated to the job not for the "money" but for the desire to improve the horse, the rider, and ultimately, dressage. It is a task of dedication involving long days, disciplined focus, on-the-spot decision making and criticism from every member of the riding public from riders to people who have never sat on a horse.
How much really goes into judging dressage?The fact that there is a subjective component to judging dressage cannot be denied. Firstly, the judges sitting at different locations around the ring points directly to subjectivity: a judge at C sees a completely different angle than a judge at E. This is why, at the highest levels of competition, there are five judges placed strategically around the ring - the scores are collected from each vantage point and the average is the representation of the overall "picture"that includes opinions from each angle.

Another element of subjectivity includes the score value given to the movement. Like it or not, when one person is scoring a movement, they do have to take a stab at giving it a value. It is possible that one judge sees a 7 when another sees the same movement as a 5. It helps to consider that the different perspective on the movement is a contributing factor to the discrepancy.

With respect to breeds and "types" of horses: dressage isn't a 'breed sport' at all. It just happens that the warmblood breeding programs, particularly those located in Europe, have been more directly focused on producing dressage-specific horses over the past 20-30 years than the other bloodlines. Accusing judges of favouring warmbloods over say, Thoroughbreds or (insert your choice of breed), is as silly as complaining when a farm tractor doesn't "get to" win at NASCAR racing! You get the idea.....

A similar problem would be evident if you wanted to ask a warmblood horse to do FEI-level reining, or even better - win at 100 mile endurance races. Given the proper training, a warmblood could do a decent sliding stop and rollback. But it would probably never be able to compete against a suitably bred Quarterhorse in terms of picking up speed on a (relatively) small circle in an indoor arena. The length of stride of the WB might be too large and and the knee action too high - he might need a lower and quicker stride to pick up the speed and then sit back into a lope.

Ditto for the endurance race - could a WB go 100 miles? Maybe some horses could be predisposed to travelling that far, but when competing against a small, light, lithe Arabian horse that through specialized breeding over generations, has developed an incredibly efficient air exchange system, the Arabian might have a distinct advantage.

There could be (few and far between) horse breeds other than WBs that can move with the same dedicated dressage-type stride - they need the uphill body outline, the strength and sit-down capability. They need to easily lengthen and compress through the whole body and these days, they need the inborn suspension of the "super horses".

At the lower levels, the playing field might be more even for non-warmblood horses. An accurate, fluidly-executed test might secure higher marks than a sporadically correct test completed by a flashy, "typey" horse. Even though the movement might be spectacular for some movements, if enough errors occur, the less flamboyant but steadier mover could outscore the flashy horse.

However, dressage at the top levels is ALL ABOUT about movement. The assumption at that level is that the training is at par (in general) by all of the competing riders - let's face it, they all have to be strong trainers to get to that level (don't bash me on this one - you can only comment if you are regularly riding at the top of the FEI levels!). Therefore, much of the difference will lie in the suitability of the horses' movements in relation to the requirements of dressage. As the "super horses" improve in their movements, the bar is rising for all the breeds. It's just that the warmbloods are outstanding round movers with suspension.

This is why, at the grass roots levels, the warmblood-cross mare can (in general) get better marks than the QH/TB horse. The first mare simply moves better - more elasticity, better depth of stride, more "throughness", and even more suspension (as little as it might be). Bottom line.

And before people criticize judges and condemn the judging system, they should head off to judging seminars and inform themselves of the requirements of dressage at all levels. They could invest a few years in scribing with different judges, and witness for themselves the decision-making processes that judges go through movement to movement, hour after hour, and sometimes, day after day.

And as wise Morpheus emphatically insisted to Neo in The Matrix,

"Sooner or later you're going to realize, just as I did, there's a difference between knowing the path and walking the path..."


Softly Determined – A Poem

I found this one on the Internet long ago, with no indication of the author.*

However, it has stayed with me, blending intensity with passion, being so eloquent and yet knowledgeable about the "path". I have personally gone through many of the moments that are described here, and so it has touched me deeply, and been an anchor through my growth as a rider. Enjoy!

* Edited to add: The author was found (see comments below)! Thank you for writing this beautiful poem, Bernie!

 

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Soft Determination

So we: make haste slowly; try harder gently; are softly determined.

The ideal we desire is one of dynamic harmony,
with aids telepathic in their subtlety.

Towards that goal,
our aids should speak in whispers rather than shouts.

The horse is the partner whose emphasis includes strength;
the rider should not emphasize this.
So beware the clenched jaw of the rider,
showing the strain of excess muscular effort, trying too hard.

Clearer communication is not usually stronger muscular effort,
but more correct and focussed effort.
Finesse, and the sweat of an iron will,
rather than the sweat of iron muscles.

As we progress in riding,
some muscles grow stronger - our legs, our abdominals -
but our real strength comes from inside,
our wish for harmony,
our desire to move as one with the horse.

So we:

make haste slowly;
try harder gently;
are softly determined.

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