6 Things You’ll Learn While Riding On The Trails


Kayla was all pumped up, bright eyed and bushy tailed (for real!) as we flew on winged legs over the sandy terrain.  The footing reverberated deeply with each footfall as I heard the soft, hollow-sounding thumps from each of her steps.

These were some of the best trails in the province! I couldn’t believe that I was there, looking ahead but feeling the trees beside the trail fly by as my fearless steed kept up an eye-watering pace. Her attention was focused ahead to the horses in front but she was also keeping an ear back, listening to the rhythmical breaths of the horses behind.

There is nothing better than being involved in an activity you love, with an animal you love, with like-minded people all working toward the same goal. Although the above scene was a competitive trail ride, you don’t have to ride competitively to get the same level of enjoyment and challenge. Just head for the trails, with friends or without, and explore the surrounding natural landscape at your preferred speed.

The trail provides opportunities that you just don’t get in other riding venues. There are forested paths that weave through dense brush, or open fields covered in high, waving grass that surrounds your horse’s legs. There are hills and bogs and cleared tracks and bumpy root-encrusted trails.

There are also fairly flat, fairly clear fields where you can enjoy practicing your riding skills without the constraints of walls or fences, in the open air where your horse is inspired to move more openly and enthusiastically, covering ground with less inhibition or restriction.

It’s not like riding on the trails means you won’t learn anything. In fact, there are many things you can learn because of the trails. Here are six.

Don’t pull on the reins!

This is something that Kayla taught me really well, but is true for many horses. I know I’ve mentioned not pulling on the reins a lot, but it’s mainly because I learned the hard way that grabbing the horse’s mouth (or nose if you’re using something bitless) only positions the horse to lean forward into the pressure, lean forward in balance, and sometimes move along even faster.

Rather, use your seat and half-halts to balance the horse into a position that allows him to transition downwards. By all means, pull if it’s your last resort, but don’t be surprised if it doesn’t bring the desired result.

It took a good amount of trail riding for me to really understand how to do a down transition from the seat and not the hands.

Feel the energy.

There is so much room for the horse to move in a more natural environment. So if you find your normally flattish, pluggish horse resembling a sprint runner (or doing a jiggy dance on the spot), see if you can “ride” that energy and put it to good use.

Feel the energy come over the horse’s back and use it as an opportunity to memorize what it really feels like when the horse tucks under and engages. You can try to emulate that feeling later on when riding in the ring.

Slow down to turn.

If you drive a car, you know that you need to slow down a bit before the turn, take the turn, and then speed up again after the turn if needed. Same goes with the horse.

Although you might not need to physically slow the legs down, you do need to shift the horse’s weight back before you head into the turn. Otherwise, gravity will work on your horse just as it does on a car – and you may discover that your horse has to scramble while careening around a turn. So if you have a little speed going, check your balance before the turn.

Know when to trust your horse.

There is no better place to learn about your horse than on the trails. You really have a chance to bond and get to know each other, while also “becoming one” with nature. The more you ride on the trails, the better you’ll know your horse’s signs and signals – when he’s on alert, when he’s truly relaxed, when he’s going to ignore your aids, and when he’s honestly tired.

The more I rode the trails, the better I got to know Kayla’s true personality. I learned that she was super honest and rarely acted up unless there was a reason (stampede of cows coming straight for us). I learned that she would go go go until she could go no further – which meant that I needed to stop her long before she was completely spent. I also learned that I could ride a bold, fast moving horse with full confidence in her.

Bend your horse – for a reason.

Bend – it’s often such a difficult concept, especially when riding in the ring. Try NOT bending when moving along a curvy trail, and you’ll know why instructors harp on it so much. There is a reason that your horse should step under with the inside hind and “wrap his body around your inside leg”: balance!

Be careful if you are approaching a curved path at speed because it’s easy to lose balance if your horse is rigid or counter-bent. It helps if you can get him to look into the turn (and see where he’s going), and to avoid leaning one way or the other. The trail is the best place to learn all about balance!

Smell the roses trees.

So far, I’ve talked mainly about riding the trails at trot or canter. That’s probably because of my horse’s competitive trail experience (you can’t really take the speed out of the equation once she gets used to it).

But there is another huge facet to riding on the trails – the beauty. Our often hectic lifestyles tend to reduce opportunity to simply be in the moment and enjoy it for what it is.

Some horses love ambling along at a leisurely gait. Walking on the trails allows you to take in every aspect of nature – the smell, the breeze, the scenery, the squirrel scurrying off under the leaves…. We’re heading into fall here in our neck o’ the woods, and the brightly colored leaves and the swish of your horse’s feet through the foliage is enough to make a good day great.

Happy trails!

Well, those are some of the things I’ve learned on the trails. I’m sure I’ve missed many. If you have some experiences of your own to share, please add them in the comments below. 

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5 Things Your Horse Doesn’t Know About You

horse doesnt knowWe ride our horses as if they should know what we want them to do. We know we’re perfectly clear in our aids as we go around the ring or on the trails, so surely the horse should have no problem interpreting our aids and answering “yes” to our questions.

To be honest, I regularly marvel at how well they do understand us. When I get on a horse for the first time, I am amazed that the horse can accurately interpret my aids and respond – even if the horse was ridden in a different discipline, or was trained in a different country. Horses are definitely better listeners than we are in that sense!

Having said that, it might be a bit different for the horse when it comes to other unknown facets of our lives. Although we often don’t think about these things, they do influence how we ride, especially in our “feel” to the horse. Our stress, or exuberance, or lack of energy affect our interactions with the horse from the moment we grab the halter and lead rope and head to the field.

The horse won’t have a clue that you had a seriously stressful meeting at work, or if you carried boxes around all day so that you’re physically exhausted by the time you get to the barn. By becoming more aware of your external life circumstances, you can improve your interactions with your horse.

Do a quick mental check of the things your horse won’t know about you – even as you head to the field.

Your Frame of Mind

Ideally, you’d be calm and reasonable each and every day. Horses have no idea about your life stresses or pressures that you have to face outside of the barn, nor do they really care. They are most concerned about things that relate to them – food, water, turnout, shelter, herd mates….

They don’t brace themselves ahead of time if you happen to be upset about an earlier event. Learn to live in the present and leave your woes in the driveway as you head to the barn.

Your Emotions

In this world of physical communication, how you feel while you ride is fairly easy for horses to decipher. This means that they will quickly pick up on mis-matches such as a sweet tone of voice but an aggressive body language. In general, you will likely convey what you’re really thinking through your physical actions and the energy you give off. It gets even easier for them when you’re in the saddle!

Learn to intentionally control your body language. The horse can feel any tension instantly. The trick is to catch yourself as you become tense, and actually teach your body to not reflect that tension. Keep your riding position open, soften through the elbows, loosen your gripping legs.

“Fake it till you make it!” Riding is supposed to be fun, after all!

Your Riding Goals

Let’s face it! Horses are not interested in your riding goals. Period.

And they have no way of even beginning to understand what you want out of a given exercise.

However, most horses can identify good work and bad work. If you can improve the horse’s way of going to make him feel better physically, the horse will learn to look forward to spending time with you under saddle. You can definitely earn trust through your riding skills and activities.

Your Preferred Riding Style

It would be great if you could know your horse well enough to know which discipline he would excel at. Then you could ride in that discipline yourself. However, most horses will go in any saddle assuming they have the ability and aptitude for the required movements. You could easily slap on a western saddle instead of a dressage saddle, or scrap both of them and go side saddle!

What’s more important is that the horse feels comfortable. Horses may have a preferred or special skill in particular riding activities but if you ride well and keep them comfortable, you can probably do what you want and your horse will happily accommodate you.

Your Riding Skills

How you ride is probably the most critical aspect to your horse. When all is said and done, an easy moving, well balanced human partner is more important than anything else to the horse.

The more educated you can be, the more you can serve your horse as he develops his own skills. No learning is ever wasted, even if it feels difficult or unreachable at first. What you learn from one horse can always be applied to other horses so there is really no such thing as “wasted” learning.

People often talk about doing activities that help us “live in the moment.” There is nothing more “momentous” than horseback riding, and the beauty of our chosen activity is that the horse offers us the opportunity to really let go of our daily lives and spend a few hours just doing and being with the horse.

Take some of the guesswork out of it for your horse. Become consistent in how you work with and around your horse, and develop the aspects that are really important. And above it all, have a great time!

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Feeling Like A  (Dressage) Queen


Like many people, I have traditionally heard the term Dressage Queen used in a generally negative manner. When I think of those words, I often picture all the stereotypes that are depicted about dressage riders – stern, tight-lipped, maybe just a little overbearing. If you go by what you hear, aspiring to be a dressage queen is often a frowned-upon goal.

But something happened that completely flipped around the meaning of the phrase for me.

The other day, I had one of those rides we all dream of. Cyrus was energetic, confident and bold, bouncy-bouncy and just full of life. He was sharp and had a spring in his step as if he was going for gold (in his own mind). He felt so upbeat that he carried me right along with him, lifting my spirits and putting me on that pedestal that only a horse can do.

Here is my attempt to capture the feel of the moment.

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Soft, harrowed footing draws sweet patterns ahead

inviting the thumpety thump of my horse’s rhythmic footfalls,

making a hoof print trail in the untouched sand.


Blue sky;

gentle, warm breeze and

a wonderfully huge, open space

calling to us,

urging us to move, move, move!


Almost soundless footfalls

traversing over space and time

pushing, lifting, carrying two as one.

Walk/trot/canter merrily-we-go-along

making circles, lines, loops and turns,

bends and laterals, straights and engagement

taking us from flat to round to uphill-like-an-airplane balance.


Heartfelt snort from my horse,

steady breaths on my part,

moving to stay still but covering ground in leaps and bounds.

Lofty almost floating yet

welcomed back to the earth with soft cushioned landings

step by step, stride by stride,

until we’re both spent and needing to walk.


For a break.


Is this what being a queen feels like?

Not just a dressage queen –

but a Queen

riding dressage,

on top of the world

(on top of my black beauty)

savoring every fantastical moment,

enveloped by all that surrounds us in sound, sight, feel and movement

and welcoming it all



Into my being.


Maybe this is what being a queen really feels like.


Have you ever had one of these rides? Tell us about it in the comments below!


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Collection: A Beginning Exercise To Try


Going into a left small circle. Note the inside hind leg stepping under, and the resulting lightness of the forehand. Photo Credit: NBanaszak Photography

I made a fairly bold statement in a previous article that was about differentiating between frame, roundness and collection.  I said that most of us don’t actually ride in collection with our horses, even when we think that’s what we’re doing.

I still stand by that comment, especially because there are a couple of misconceptions about what collection really means.

The Misconceptions

Collection isn’t only about being slow. Many people think that if they slow down their horses (think disengagement of the hind end), that they are “collecting”. It is true that upper level horses don’t move their legs quickly, but the slowness doesn’t come about because of lack of forward. In fact, it’s quite the opposite. If the horse needs to elevate the legs higher, then he needs more time to do that. The legs move slower to allow for the increased “joint articulation” and movement required in collection.

Collection isn’t about shortening the stride length either. People often think that if they can get their horses to travel over less ground, that they’re collected. In fact, the leg activity increases. Although the horse takes more steps in less space, the energy goes into forming higher and rounder leg movement rather than just moving ahead over ground.

This is how I explained collection in the article:

In dressage, collection is the highest level of training for the horse. In other words, travelling while collected is difficult and requires a sophisticated level of balance, mental/emotional control, and understanding from the horse. The collected horse has developed the strength to tilt the haunches so the hind legs are far underneath the body, and the front end (head and neck included) is at the highest point. The horse moves in an “uphill” manner.

Collection is achieved primarily by the seat and legs. The hands are the last to act, and ideally, serve to “catch and recycle” the energy produced by the seat and legs. The horse is not kept in place – the collected appearance is the result of the activity of the hind end. Let go of both reins, and the horse should stay in collection for several strides.


In The Beginning

Collection is difficult for both rider and horse to achieve, especially in the beginning, because of the re-definition of aids that needs to take place. While the horse and rider are in the novice stage of riding, leg aids can be used to just move, or to perform a transition.

But when you start working on collection, you will change your seat and leg aids to mean something different. In this case, leg aids need to mean “engagement” rather than just “go”. Your expectation, as the rider, is that the horse puts more energy into the movement, without going bigger or faster or longer or changing gaits. In fact, your leg and seat aids combined will be morphing into something new to tell the horse: put more energy into your movement, reach deeper underneath your body, and begin to tilt your pelvis so that you can start to carry rather than push.

An Exercise

There is a (seemingly) simple exercise you can use to start to teach you and your horse what collection feels like. It can help your horse begin to feel what it’s like to reach under with the hind legs and tilt the pelvis (even if just a little). It basically puts you into “assuming the position” rather than trying to force anything.

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Nested Circles. © Horse Listening, 2015

These are called “nested circles.” The trick with doing them is that they both should start at the exact same point. So if you start the large circle at C, but then go into the small circle three-quarters into the circle, you’ll lose the purpose of the exercise. Make sure you start them at the same place.

Do the large circle first. I have it spaced out here at 20 metres, but you can adjust the size according to your riding space. The key is to make it large and evenly round. Take the opportunity here to activate your horse’s hind legs.

You only need a mild bend, so although you want flexion (the horse looks in the direction of the turn), you can keep the horse fairly straight and focus on energy and activity. Make the strides large, find your ideal tempo and stay at that tempo, and then focus on the accuracy of the circle.

Then do the small circle. In the diagram, it’s a 10-metre circle but again, you can play with the size a bit. Just don’t make it too large, nor too small. You need it small enough to ask for a fairly deep bend, but not so small that you horse has trouble negotiating the turn in the first place.

Bend! As you approach the small circle (in the last quarter of the large circle), apply your bend aids – inside leg at the girth, outside leg behind the girth, your core and shoulders turned to the middle of the circle, mild inside rein contact for flexion, outside neck rein for direction – and bend before you hit C again. Then, move into the 10-m circle.

The horse should now have a fairly deep bend in the hind end as well as the front end. But make sure he doesn’t just fall to the inside. The image of “wrapped around your inside leg” works well here. Complete the 10-m circle.

But Don’t Forget!

This is where we all fall apart a bit. We tend to flop – either to the inside of the turn, or in our seat. Stay tall, turn in but don’t lean or collapse, and keep riding!

During the small circle, you need to focus on more than just bend. You also have to encourage the horse to maintain or even increase his energy level. You can accept a mildly slower tempo with the legs, but you can’t let the energy dissipate. In fact, you need to do everything you can to encourage your horse to stay in front of your leg especially in the small circle.

At first, you’ll feel a bit like a teeter totter. You will ask your horse to go, and he’ll go but fall to the forehand and begin to rush off. Half-halt and try again.

If you don’t ask the horse to go and he might break gait or quit altogether. Or sometimes, you ask the horse to go and he just runs off.

Be patient through these tries. Both of you have to learn what it feels like to carry rather than to just push with the hind end. Both of you need to figure out how much energy you need to put in to maintain gait with more activity and roundness.

So listen carefully to your horse, and see how much go you need and how much half-halt you need to not let the energy just run off.

If you find yourself and/or your horse huffing and puffing after just a few tries – congratulations! You’re on the right track. You’ll both need to develop the stamina to keep moving in collection over a longer period of time.

If you feel like you’re just going from “go to no“, then you’re also on the right track. Over time, you’ll be able to be more diplomatic in your aids and your horse will become better at keeping his own balance.

Give this a try. Did your horse step deeper on the smaller circle? Were you able to keep up the activity level while on the smaller circle? Did you have any difficulties? Let us know in the comments below.

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