20 Ways Horse Riding Becomes Life Itself
At first, horse riding is just like any other skill you want to learn. You put some effort in and eventually become more effective as time goes on.
At some point, things begin to change. Somehow, without you necessarily knowing about it, the lessons the horses have taught you start materializing in your daily activities, even when the circumstances have nothing at all to do with horses.
So you could say that horses are our teachers. Not only do we grow in terms of physical ability, but perhaps even more so, we grow in character.
While we develop as riders, we also grow as human beings. Situations that used to affect us one way no longer bother us in the same manner, not because the circumstances themselves are any different, but more due to how we have learned to deal with them.
Then we realize that the true teachers are the horses themselves. All we have to do is learn to listen.
Horse riding becomes life when…
1. The patience you develop working with your horse becomes the patience you use with your friends and colleagues.
2. The body language you learn to communicate with becomes your source of confidence in group activities.
3. The coordination you learn on the back of the horse keeps you safe from unexpected physical mishaps.
4. Heavy lifting/pulling/pushing/hoof cleaning develops your strength enough to allow you to fluidly function under heavy loads when needed.
5. Facing your fears while on another’s four legs teaches you how to have courage in the face of life’s many difficulties.
6.You learn to temper your (often over-scheduled) daily routines by slowing down to meet the simplicity of horse life.
7. The leadership skills your horse teaches you carries into your work and relationship interactions.
8. The self-confidence you develop from knowing you can influence a powerful animal seeps into every interaction you have with people.
9. You learn from horses that it’s okay for things to get worse, because after things get worse, they always get better.
10. You discover that taking shortcuts might not be to your benefit in the long run; some things have to take the time they need to take.
11. When certain maneuvers get a little difficult (like riding through a corner), all you need is a little extra impulsion to smooth things out.
12. Sometimes, you just have to let go (especially when the horse bucks and bucks)!
13. In general, riding (life) isn’t about brute strength – it’s about gentle technique and strategy.
14. There is no such thing as a day off – you begin to value the rewards that hard work reaps.
15. The work has to get done whether you feel up to it or not – so it becomes easier to fulfill responsibilities because you know how to get the work done.
16. You understand completely how asking nicely is always better than demanding.
17. There is no such thing as instant gratification. There is only hard work and step-by-step development.
18. Perfection is always aspired to, but rarely reached!
19. The path is more important than the end result.
20. Although we all have our own “conformation faults” that might work against us, we can overcome almost anything with some time and effort.
There must be so many other examples of how horses sneak their ways into our daily lives. Feel free to keep adding to my list (in the comment section below).
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Find the Space Between the Give and Take in Horse Riding
Scene 1
The rider holds tight to the reins, pulling backward, providing little give and take through the arms, elbows and shoulders. The tension radiates through the rider’s body to create a tight back, an unmoving seat, and clinging legs.
The horse may or may not have a tightness to the neck, but because of the pull on the reins, there is little opportunity for him to balance using his head and neck. His strides are short, his back may be hollow and he is likely on the forehand.
Scene 2
The rider lets the reins out to the point of creating a “loop”. There is no contact with the mouth, other than at points of time when the rider needs to communicate something: stop, turn or downward transition.
The horse’s neck and body is l-o-n-g and strung out. Hind legs are stepping out behind the horse’s croup. This horse is also probably on the forehand and hollow in the back but for completely the opposite reasons.
So whether it is a perpetually pulling hand or an occasionally rough, abrupt hand, you must know that every time you use your hands improperly, you are assuring your horse shortened usefulness and an unhappy life. - Charles de Kunffy, The Ethics and Passions of Dressage, p. 60
There is no doubt that there is more to riding than just what the hands are doing. We already know that the seat, legs and hands together are actors in the same performance and must work in combination. But for the purposes of explanation, let’s do an in-depth analysis of the role of the hands.
The scenes above demonstrate the extremes of what can be done with the reins: too much contact versus not enough contact. You’ve probably watched both types of riders at different times, or maybe you’ve explored or experienced both ends of the pendulum yourself.
Eventually, with enough experience, we learn that neither technique represents an exclusive path to effective riding. As with so many other things in life, we need to find the happy medium.
Try This
Photo Credit: NBanaszak Photography
1. Find the correct placement of your hands and arms. Your elbows should have a nice soft almost “L” bend in them and hang in line with your body. Your hands should be in front of the pommel, no more than four inches higher, forward, sideways or backward (we call this the four-inch box).
2. Your hands cannot move backward from the box. In other words, you won’t pull back and your elbows won’t go back past your body line.
3. Your hands cannot move past the front of the box. In other words, you won’t push the reins ahead or open your elbows so that your arms straighten.
4. Your hands can give and take within the four-inch parameters of the box – but the catch is that the give and take comes from your elbows, not your fingers! The rein length should not change during the give or take (although you may need to readjust your rein length from time to time if the reins slip through your fingers or you intentionally want to lengthen or shorten them).
Keep your reins short enough to allow you to provide support instantly, but also long enough to allow for the horse’s level of training and muscle development.
And that’s it! From here, you can ride as usual from the seat and legs, and reinforce your aids with the hands.
If the horse pulls, you resist with a bracing from your elbows and seat. But you don’t pull back.
If you want to give a release, only slightly open your elbows to create a little space forward in the horse’s mouth so he feels a supported freedom (i.e. not thrown away) to move into that space. Do not lengthen the reins out or straighten your elbows.
The give and take should be so invisible that only you and the horse know it happened. Anything bigger and the horse’s balance will be affected. Ideally, you should alternate between a give and take as needed depending on the horse’s balance and the movement being performed.
Do you have any other tips for finding the space between the give and take?
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Leg yield to the rail.
Riders sometimes complain that riding in a ring can become too boring. If you’re bored, your horse is certain to be bored too. But there are literally hundreds of exercises you can do with your horse if you are creative enough. Here is a list of just a few ideas to keep ring riding fresh and interesting for both you and your horse.
1. Ask for more “go” and hold on for the ride! Don’t let go of the reins but also don’t pull (and maybe half-halt if your horse loses balance a bit to the forehand) and don’t get left behind.
2. Try a “loop”: coming out of the corner, head on a diagonal line toward the 1/4 line, then head back into the next corner. This will require your horse to go from one bend to another and back, all along one length of the ring.
3. Try a loop in the canter – this introduces a counter-canter – what fun! Stay fairly straight in the counter canter – don’t bend too far to the inside.
4. Count a certain number of strides per transition. For example, aim for 5 walk strides, 10 canter strides and then 8 trot strides. Go back to the walk and try it all again.
5. Try a figure 8 or two: one way is to use the diagonals and ends of the arena. The 8 should cross exactly over “x” (the middle of the ring). Another way is to make the 8 look like two balls attached in the middle (like a snowman), with the circles being more in the center of the ring, off the rails. This one is more challenging for the horse – one circle tends to be larger than the other, and the change through the short center tends to be more difficult.
6. Do a figure 8 with canter on one circle and trot on the other. Transition right in the middle of the 8.
7. Play with transitions: canter – to halt – to back up 5 strides – to canter.
8. Ride right into the corner of the ring and maintain the strength of your stride whether in walk, trot or canter. Keep a true bend as you enter the corner, and increase impulsion as you exit.
9. Do 4 circles as you go around the ring at A, E, C and B (dressage ring letters), one a little larger or smaller than the others. Be really picky about exact size and shape of each circle, and maintain a bend corresponding to the size of the circle.
10 . Play with the canter-trot to increase impulsion and get the horse to reach further underneath with the hind end.
11. Try the not-canter to improve your transitions from trot to canter.
12. Do a circle at A. After completing the circle, head into the corner with a good bend, straighten up to come out, and fly through the diagonal in a lengthen or medium trot. Finish by doing a circle in the opposite direction at C. When your horse gets good at the bend changes, add an additional variable of changing gaits at each circle.
13. Circle at A, lengthen across the diagonal, come off the short end at the 3/4 line and leg-yield to the rail.
14. Do a 3-loop serpentine and work on correct bend to bend with a true straight line in the middle.
15. Play with the serpentine: maintain all as in #14, but change gaits from loop to loop.
16. Accordion your horse: on a large 20m circle, get the horse to stretch down and out with the neck (with light contact on the reins), then come up and shorter in the neck (engage the hind end to raise the neck), then stretch down and out again. This can be very difficult as there is variation in the balance of the horse, as well as in the length of the back and neck. Be sure to use many half-halts to maintain balance through the changes of body posture.
Well, you get the idea. I’m sure you can think of other fun exercises you can work into your regular ring ride. Be creative, decide what you want to do and build your ride into a series of exercises that develop from one to the other. Challenge yourself and your horse and you will never again be bored by the four walls that surround you!
Do you have any other interesting exercises? Share them in the comments below!
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